Welcome to Daisy Chain Ceremonies
"Caring for your family.... as my own"
Welcome to my website I am Victoria (Vicky) Wesley and I have been honoured to work in the funeral profession for almost 40 years. I began my journey when I was just 15 years old working in my family's funeral directors in the North West and was so proud when I qualified as a funeral director three years later.
I proudly served our local families for a number of years, becoming part of the communities I worked in. I am still in contact with many of the families I have helped over the years and now count them as friends and I am so grateful to be involved in their celebrations as well as honoured to help them say goodbye to their loved ones.
Time and life move on though and I continued my journey within the corporate funeral world, which came with an opportunity to move to the South coast, helping me to realise a personal dream, living by the sea!
After a while here I realised working for a corporation no longer allowed me to provide care for families on a personal level and this is where my passion and heart has always rested, helping and guiding families through what is possibly the hardest time of their lives and of course helping them to remember, commemorate and celebrate their loved one's life.
So in 2016 I began a new chapter and left the corporate world behind and came back to the beginning, back to caring for families now in my role as a celebrant, helping people to remember, to love and to never forget.
Funeral Services and Celebrations of Life
"Grieving may be universal, but we all do it in our own unique way"
Each person lives a unique life and it is my belief, that a funeral service should reflect this, paying tribute to and celebrating the life of your loved one, and also acknowledging the pain and loss you the family are feeling.
I will come and see you and your family and explain all the options that are available to you, as a family. We will discuss the music, memories, reading and poems that you would like for the funeral service and if your family would like to share their memories in the service, I will support you to achieve this.
Every ceremony will be individually designed for you and you will receive a draft copy for your approval, keeping you involved in the service and at the heart of the service will be your loved one. I have worked in the funeral industry for 40 years and I passionately believe that.
"saying goodbye is just as important as saying hello"
Together we will make sure your loved one has a funeral service that truly reflects their life, celebrates their achievements and everything that was important to them.
Together we will remember.
Over my career I have mourned and cried with families at times, but I have also celebrated with them too and when the time comes for you to smile, I would be honoured to share those occasions with you also, please contact me for
Weddings, Civil Partnerships, Renewal of Vows, Naming Ceremonies
As with everything I do, each service will be individually composed with your input and beliefs at the forefront. Together we will create a beautiful ceremony that reflects you and your family and the occasion we are celebrating together.
Tel: 07973531421
Email: victoria.wesley@outlook.com
Dear Vicky, I wanted to say thank you so much for the wonderful way you conducted the service for Geoff yesterday. Your delivery and timing was heartfelt and so clear, it completely captured the man he was, even though you didnt get to meet him, but I know you would have hit it off if you had I have arranged family funerals before and found it hard to write a eulogy, I was expecting to have to do the same but you took all that on and wrote it all out after just sitting down and chatting with me about Geoff and his life. Your guidance on how best to construct and present it was invaluable and it was such a comfort to know that was all taken care of. So many people said what a lovely service it was and we will be forever grateful to you for making it such a perfect day.
Frances Thursday, June 25, 2026
At one of the worst times in our lives we were lucky enough to have Vicky arranging our mums service. At our initial meeting she got us to talk about mum and wanted our views on what the service should be like. She listened intently and came across as very caring. When we received the copy of the draft service it showed just how much she had listened. I asked for a few little tweaks (that was just down to me) which Vicky duly did. The ceremony on the day (6th June 2019) was just perfect. Mum wouldn't have wanted a fuss and we didn't want anything too gushing and Vicky got it absolutely spot on. Other people who attended the funeral had nothing but praise for the service itself and the way Vicky presented it. Thanks again for everything.
Mark, Jackie And Paul Friday, August 9, 2019
Thank you Vicky so much, we wanted a Celebration of Barrys life,and boy did you portray his memory to everyone, it was as though you had known him as we had all his life.You truly have a beautiful soul,personality, professionalism, compassion,you have in abundance.Once again thank you Vicky,from Angie,Mark,Nicki,Jude,Zak,Ruby and of course Barrys boy Ollie, x
Angie Cox and family Monday, April 27, 2026
Hi Vicki, I just wanted to thank you personally for doing such an amazing eulogy for my mum today. You made us feel welcomed, loved and just made the service easier to cope with and made us feel more at ease. The send off was perfect and mum would have loved that you managed to get people up and dancing at the end. We couldn't have made a better choice than you to do the service. Thankyou from the bottom of my heart. My mum would have loved you. Helen Buller xxx
Helen Buller Monday, March 30, 2026
A HUGE THANKYOU FOR TODAY, we were thrilled with the way it went, and I know Mother would have enjoyed her own funeral, it was, funny, emotional just perfect for her and you were definitely the person to do it for her., and a special thankyou from me for getting me through my speech ... couldnt have done it without you beside me. Love Jane XXXX
Jane Taylor Tuesday, July 6, 2021
Get In Touch!
Address: 229 Hampton Lane, Blackfield, Southampton, SO451XA
Telephone: 07973531421
Email Address: victoria.wesley@outlook.com